The Decision 

After the visit with the termination counsellor I went straight home, curled up in my bed and lay there thinking about my options. I then did what I recommend no one does, but we all do anyway, I googled. I googled abortion experiences. What a horrible thing to Google. Although a lot of them were … Continue reading The Decision 


That Termination Visit.. 

By now we had known we were pregnant for a couple of weeks. Had we come any closer to making a decision? No. For me, I had come closer to this little alien growing inside me, I had connected with it, I could see myself nursing it, changing it's tiny nappies and proudly announcing it's … Continue reading That Termination Visit.. 

When A Negative Result Isn’t Always Great News 

I've never had an issue with needles or blood tests. In fact I donated blood every year at school when the vans came around. There's something about giving more than just money, something that is you to an essential cause that feels well, pretty positive. After your first donation here in New Zealand, once you … Continue reading When A Negative Result Isn’t Always Great News